please help me!Can you give me some examples of somebody being controlling?
Your friend is controlling if it is always her who decides where you go, what clothes you should buy - she doesn't listen to your opinion or consider your feelings about anything.
A boss can be controlling if he ';micro-manages'; his staff. Laying down rules for every single task and not letting anyone use their own judgement or initiative.
People begin to lose their confidence and self-esteem in these situations.Can you give me some examples of somebody being controlling?
controlling people make judgment statements or facial expressions.
some thing like saying ';i don't know about you'; or raising their eye brows when you open up - or telling you that you are inappropriate - or demanding you apologize when you have done nothing wrong - or cutting off contact when you do something they do not approve of and they behave in a catty manner.
if you do not feel ok around someone chances are you ought not be around them - do not try to live up to an others expectation of you.
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